“We Must All Fail in Life”

No one should be allowed to work in the West Wing of the White house who has not suffered a major disappointment in life.”

(Bill Moyers)

     Of all the dramatic experiences children and adolescent experience in schools, is their first encounter with an F on a school product they have submitted. The F becomes more onerous when accompanied with that look of sadness or contempt on the part of teacher handing out the F. From those early days in elementary school to university classrooms, students go to great lengths to avoid the F, most of which, dismiss the corrective goal of the F, and, instead, develop all manner of strategies to obfuscate the meaning or impact of the F.

      I will not in this blog critique of the educational problems with the zero-sum game created by institutional grading policies. [1]What I will focus on is a broader look at the value of failure in learning and living life or to be it more succinctly: we must all fail in life to succeed in life. Strictly from a pedagogical stance, the feedback function, is integral to mastery of a subject, of an occupation, or of human experience. One does not learn from being right, but, from being wrong—assuming the feedback function is correctly practiced.

      Putting aside failure as a pedagogical tool, as a human tool, those unacquainted with failure or have become skillful at rationalizing failure, develop a lack of caution that business and political leaders often display in the actions they undertake on behalf of other people. A thread that runs through all of our great leaders is how they came to terms with human fallibility. Lincoln, for example, was very open about the mistakes he made and the human cost of those mistakes. And, in admitting these mistakes, he followed up, by working to correct those mistakes, often by making dramatic changes to strategy or personnel. Lyndon Johnson on the other hand, had great difficulty admitting mistakes, and in fact, instead of changing course, he often doubled down on what had become clearly a big failure.

      Last, but not least, failure is the source of all forms of innovation in our world. No part of our lived experience has not been touched by someone, somewhere, sometime, trying to figure out what went wrong with a failed idea, and, trying again to make that idea work. In the real world, we applaud those pioneers who never give up on an idea that has been branded with a F. In the world of schools, however, an F, terminates any further study of a topic, idea, or concept. Not only does an F terminate further learning, but, leaves a student wearing the the Scarlet Letter F until the next test.  


[1] Joe Feldman in his book, Grading for Equity: Why it Matters, and How it Can Transform Schools and Classrooms, provides an extensive critique of institutional grading policies of schools and alternative grading policies that understand the proper function of feedback as both a learning and motivational tool.

SHIFT #5: How We Get Work Done

      The fifth shift school leaders must undertake is how they get work done. Presently, main and central offices get work done by employing routine managerial tasks and functions—budgets, schedules, protocols, hierarchies that control outcomes. To best prepare our students for the digital world of work, school leaders must go beyond being CONTROLLERS to becoming COACHES who operate with a mindset of discovery and foster continual rapid exploration, execution, and learning. The leadership practices enabling this shift include the following:

  • Moving from a hierarchy of individual leaders to networks of leadership teams;
  • Regularly reprioritizing initiatives to simultaneously execute today’s programs, co-create tomorrow’s programs, and let go of yesterday’s programs;
  • Engaging and leading people, helping them understand—and be excited by—the fact there will be ongoing and significant change.

In closing, all of the five shifts described in these latest blogs, if followed by school leaders, would require a fundamental shift in how schools are organized—grades, departments—how curriculum are organized—courses, subjects, credits—and how teachers are organized—classrooms, transmission—and how schools are located—in buildings. Embedded in all of these shifts is shift in mindset from institutional goals to educational goals—the goals that are listed in mission statements, but, are quickly forgotten when main and building office doors close.

SHIFT #4: How we Organize: Beyond Command to Collaboration

      The fourth shift school leaders must undertake is HOW THEY ORGANIZE THEIR OFFICES. Presently, main and central offices employ a command and control organizational structure. To best prepare our students for the digital world of work, school leaders “must beyond being directors that receive and give instructions up and down a vertical hierarchy to being CATALYST that empower and guide self-managing teams, fostering connection, dialogue, and cooperation across traditional organizational boundaries.”(McKinsey Quarterly, May 2023) .Students in today’s schools continue to sit silo like classrooms and departments in a private sector world organized around networks of autonomous teams working together. The following leadership practices can help drive the shift:

  • Breaking up traditional silo like organizational structures—grade levels, subjects, departments, specialties—into self-regulating entrepreneurial teams based on themes, problems, fields of interest.
  • Moving from a hierarchy of individual leaders to networks of leadership teams.
  • Developing communication networks that share innovative approaches to teaching and learning.

SHIFT #3: How We Show Up

      The third shift school leaders must undertake is HOW THEY SHOW UP. Presently, main and central offices are occupied by school leaders performing their particular professional roles. To best prepare our students for the digital world of work, school leaders must move beyond their identity as professionals and show up as humans, with the courage reveal their authentic selves. The intent is to move beyond task-driven and transactional relationships by taking time to enter teacher workplaces not only to model professional expectations, but, more importantly to share values, beliefs, hopes, and fears. Too often school leaders fall back on their professional selves to restore a sense of certainty and authority. When these professional walls go up, faculty members become reluctant to share their deepest passion, wisdom, creativity, and expertise.

Shift 2: How to Create Value: Being Brutally Honest

      The second shift school leaders must undertake is HOW TO CREATE VALUE. Presently, main and central offices preoccupy themselves with the implementation function. The goal being adding programs or activities or structures or amenities that will set their school apart from other schools in their area.

      To accommodate the digital working world, school leaders must move beyond competing on the hard facts of schooling to creating educational environments that live up to the soft educational goals and values written into school mission statements: “passion for lifelong learning;” “empower students to think critically;” “fostering a love of learning;” “cultivating leadership skills;” “equipping students with the skills and values they need to thrive in the 21st century.”

      How should school leaders begin this shift? For those school leaders serious about making this sift, they should start with sitting in classrooms all day and asking themselves this question in each class: “In this class do I see any evidence of a mission stated goal or value being purposefully developed amongst the students in this class? If the school leader is honest with themselves, what they will observe in their classrooms is best summarized in a quote from John Goodlad’s A Place Called School (1984): “Boredom is a disease of epidemic proportions.” Now, a generation later, if you were ask students for a list of adjectives that describe their classroom experience, I doubt any of the goals and values written into school mission statements would make the list.

      In past and future blogs, I will continue describing those managerial and leadership strategies and dispositions that embed mission driven goals and values in classroom instruction. The journey towards mission driven leadership must begin with school leaders being brutally honest about the classrooms they supervise and the courage to change, in Goodlad’s words, “the extraordinary sameness in our schools.”